Wedding catering checklist and day-of timeline
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Book catering two to three months out, lock the menu at six weeks, confirm the headcount at 72 hours, and hold a venue recce before the week of the wedding. On the day, the kitchen starts six to seven hours before the first plate.
Key takeaways
- Lock the menu six weeks out; changes after that raise cost, not quality.
- Final headcount at 72 hours is the single most useful thing a family can give a caterer.
- A venue recce prevents the three classic failures: no water, no fire permission, no unloading access.
- Kitchen fires 6–7 hours before the first plate for a full traditional meal.
- Nominate one family contact for the caterer. Five people giving instructions is how mistakes happen.
Most catering problems at weddings are timing problems, not cooking problems. Below is the planning checklist we give families, followed by the timeline our own team runs on the day. Both are written for a Bengaluru wedding with a mid-morning muhurtham and a lunch for 400–800 guests.
Planning checklist by month
3 months before
- Fix the guest count band (not the exact number) and the function list
- Shortlist caterers and taste with the head cook, not a salesperson
- Confirm whether the venue permits on-site cooking and open flame
- Pay the advance and get the date held in writing
6 weeks before
- Lock the final menu for every function, item by item
- Confirm dietary requirements: satvik, no onion–no garlic, Jain, diabetic
- Decide service style per function — seated leaf meal, buffet, or both
- Agree the number of live counters and where they will stand
2 weeks before
- Joint venue recce with the caterer, venue manager and family contact
- Confirm water points, power, gas storage, unloading access and washing area
- Fix the serving layout and guest flow with the decorator
- Confirm the muhurtham time and the exact first-plate time
72 hours before
- Give the final headcount per function
- Confirm the family's single point of contact and their phone number
- Confirm staff entry passes and vehicle access timings with the venue
- Settle the payment schedule for the balance
The day-of kitchen timeline
| Time | What happens |
|---|---|
| 4:30 am | Provisions and vessels unloaded; on-site kitchen set up; water lines checked |
| 5:00 am | Cutting team starts vegetables; rice soaked; fires lit |
| 6:00 am | Breakfast tiffin service prepared for family and early guests |
| 7:30 am | Breakfast served; main meal cooking begins in parallel |
| 9:30 am | Sweets and payasam finished and set aside; savouries packed |
| 10:30 am | Palya, kootu and gojju completed; sambar on the fire |
| 11:15 am | Dining hall laid out; leaves counted, washed and stacked |
| 11:45 am | Rice and rasam finished; serving team briefed on the leaf order |
| 12:15 pm | Leaves laid, water glasses placed, first-round items served |
| 12:30 pm | First batch seated; serving begins as muhurtham concludes |
| 1:30 pm | Second batch; kitchen replenishes from reserve vessels |
| 3:00 pm | Service closes; clearing, washing, waste segregation |
| 4:30 pm | Site handed back to the venue |
Three failures a recce prevents
- 01No running water within reach of the cooking area. Washing 600 leaves and 40 vessels needs a real water point, not a garden tap.
- 02Fire and gas restrictions the family did not know about. Many apartment clubhouses and some hotels forbid open flame entirely, which changes the menu and the price.
- 03Unloading access. If a tempo cannot reach within 80 metres of the kitchen area, staff spend two hours carrying vessels that should have been spent cooking.
Planning a wedding date?
We will walk your venue with you before you commit, and tell you honestly if the kitchen arrangements will work.
Frequently asked questions
- How early should wedding catering be booked in Bangalore?
- Two to three months ahead for most dates, and four months for peak muhurtham dates between November and February when cooks and vessel sets are committed early.
- When should the final guest count be given to the caterer?
- 72 hours before the function. That is late enough to be accurate and early enough for provisions to be bought at the right quantity.
- What time does a wedding catering team arrive?
- For a lunch function, our team is on site by 4:30 am — roughly six to seven hours before the first plate is served.
About the author
Nandu Yadav
Chief Consultant & Owner, Upendar Caterers · 20 years in catering
Nandu Yadav is a veteran of the Bangalore catering industry with over 20 years of experience. He specializes in large-scale pure vegetarian event planning, traditional South Indian menu design, and per-plate costing for weddings and corporate events. Having managed over 5,000 successful functions across North Bangalore (Sanjaynagar, Sahakarnagar, Hebbal) and major tech parks, Nandu provides authoritative insights based on real-world logistical expertise.
- Pure Vegetarian Wedding Catering
- Per-plate Costing & Quantity Planning
- Traditional Brahmin & South Indian Menus
- Corporate Lunch Operations in Tech Parks
- On-site Kitchen Setup & Food Safety (FSSAI)
- Logistics for Large Events (5000+ guests)
